Inflammatory Breast Cancer
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Karen Joy - IBC Survivor

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My daughter, Karen Joy, was diagnosed in July, 1997 at the age of 36.

Karen

In 1997 my 36-year-old daughter had a large lump (10 cm) in her breast that had appeared suddenly. Karen was originally diagnosed with invasive ductal adenocarcinoma.

The doctors moved as quickly as we had hoped -- scheduling appointments for the oncologist, general surgeon and plastic surgeon for reconstruction.

A few days before the scheduled surgery date Karen had complained about one breast being warm to the touch and some 'wrinkling.'

The oncologist gave her an antibiotic, and after three days she was re-diagnosed with Inflammatory Breast Cancer ... accelerating, aggressive breast cancer metastasizing to the lymphatic system!

Surgery was immediately cancelled. The protocol for IBC is different than standard breast cancer. Because this is such a fast moving form of breast cancer, chemotherapy is done before surgery.

It's really important to make sure that the 'margins' are clean so that the cancer cells are not allowed to spread into the blood and lymph systems when surgery is performed.

What was so ironic is that if her doctor had moved more quickly, surgery could have been disastrous!

Karen, compassionate and sensitive, was overcome with a strength I had never previously witnessed.

After chemo, her sense of humor was in full play. Calling herself the 'Chia Pet' after losing her beautiful shoulder length hair and slipping two stickers on her breasts under the hospital gown the day of her simple mastectomy -- one saying 'This one' with a smiley face and the other saying 'Don't Touch' on the healthy breast -- She was my strength.

During three weeks of isolation, when she had her high dose chemo and stem cell rescue, she continuously cheered up seriously ill people on the transplant floor with her upbeat attitude and sweetness.

Radiation, another protocol, and now on Tamoxifen, have failed to dampen her spirits. Fortunately, she is doing amazingly well.

There was nothing positive about what she was being told -- a 25% chance of survival over a five-year period of time.

We have since learned NOT to pay attention to statistics and know with all our hearts she does have a future!!!

The main problem with IBC is that, unfortunately, there are too many physicians who are really not aware of IBC's symptoms and who think IBC is so rare, they are misdiagnosing patients -- wasting precious time with people's lives.

Because of my daughter's diagnosis, the wonderful community of the IBC support group and the IBC Research Foundation, I have become a full time IBC activist.

Spreading the word about symptoms is urgently needed for public awareness and an accurate diagnosis.

You don't have to have a lump to have breast cancer! It sounds contradictory because my daughter did have a 10 cm tumor, BUT the majority of ibc patients do not have a well defined tumor, so mammograms and ultrasounds do not usually detect inflammatory -- therefore the urgency of public awareness of IBC symptoms!

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Raindrops Keep Falling On My Head

Raindrops keep fallin' on my head
And just like the guy whose feet are too big for his bed
Nothin' seems to fit
Those raindrops are fallin' on my head, they keep fallin'

So I just did me some talkin' to the sun
And I said I didn't like the way he got things done
Sleepin' on the job
Those raindrops are fallin' on my head, they keep fallin'

But there's one thing I know
The blues they send to meet me won't defeat me
It won't be long till happiness steps up to greet me

Raindrops keep fallin' on my head
But that doesn't mean my eyes will soon be turnin' red
Cryin's not for me

'Cause I'm never gonna stop the rain by complainin'
Because I'm free
Nothin's worryin' me

It won't be long till happiness steps up to greet me

Raindrops keep fallin' on my head
But that doesn't mean my eyes will soon be turnin' red
Cryin's not for me

'Cause I'm never gonna stop the rain by complainin'
Because I'm free
Nothin's worryin' me

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